[DearestLove]

Originally Posted by vietboy

yes, u r not buying her whole family but marriage is not just 2 person thingie, it is also a 2 families thingie. it include yur parents and her parents. it is not just the 2 of u. marriage is a journey, not a transaction.

Vietnamese are very strong in their family ties, family comes 1st b4 anything. its very different from ours. u want them to give up on their family? No way bro...

i dont know what excatly happened btwn u n yur in-laws, but i believed they dont despise u, they r have happy to have a foreigner as son-in-law. it brings honour to their family. how can they dislike u?

like the bros had said, u need time to educate yur bx n including her parents.

sorry, i nhieu chuyen a bit: can i ask how long u know yur bx b4 yur marriage?

Half a yr then 9 mths marriage . Very short period of time, atill have a long journey ahead...