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Originally Posted by SingViet
Same for me for the first few years. Whatever i say about her family, she will say i look down on them, damm a lot of pride. Many years later today, she understands what i say and i also understand her point of view. We learn to close one eye and things are so much better now.  |
My blood will boil and my blood pressure will shoot up when i quarrel with her.Damm full or pride and very stubborn.Some of the things she say to me like dont think she come from poor country,i can bully her.Dont look down on her,dont lecture her on what to do and she always insist she is right and ask me to say sorry to her after our quarrel and why i make things difficult for her.
WTF.I am just telling her my point of view on why i think she is wrong but she think i look down on her.I told her if saying the word sorry or admit that she is wrong is so difficult,i can do it for her.
Sometime no point in telling them the reason,just close one eye and let them do.But that was all the past,now at least she listen.Most of them is 'mouth hard but heart soft'