Great rules -- almost like commandments. Wish I had read these earlier. Bro Sam's rules protect u precisely because of each of our own vulnerability. When the fl is just a tool for release, it is fine for all parties. BUT when a fl manage to worm her way to gain your repeat interest, sympathy, whatever -- caveat emptor applies.... Unless u enjoy exposing yr wallet, and normal life to her and whatever she's plotting.
. (Once, on a 3rd Rtf with a smooth chick, she proclaimed in the midst of the fast n fury that "don't make me fall in love with u baby!!" .. Hahah... That was the last straw.