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Originally Posted by pusielover
Hmm.. So many posting abt Vietnamese wives.
Many Bros wrote abt how they "demanded" their husbands to send miney back.
Well, I believed in any kind of hus/wife relationship, miney ain't the only problem we face.
Let's face it, if the wife is not happy with her hubby, she can find all sort of reasons to be angry, even if you give in to her by sending miney, she will pick on other things. On the contrary, if she feel loved, miney will not be the issue she pestering abt. We guys need to play a part to let her felt loved, and slowly "transferred her love" for her relatives in VN to her family in sg.
We can slow talked them, i.e: a typical sg family both hus and wife need to work to sustain a family, where we married a VN wife, mostly properly the only breadwinner is the hus who brings home the bacon, so how can he afford to provide for 2 families? More worse if they have children of their own (I dun mind if the VN wife is enable to work in sg and use partial of her salary to support her "naing jia"). I am sure they wil listen to us if we shown them enough love and talk logically.
Let's be fair to foreign wives irregardless which countries they were from,
Do you think marrying a local will have no issue? It could be worse, coz local wives are financially independence and need not depend on the hus for survival.
Just my 2 cts worth of advise.
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As most girl who marry here are mostly poor in their country so the issue of money for their family member will surely surface.A lot of thing is really depends on how a sg man handle it and how much that foreign wife really understand.
Patience,understanding and dicussing with her will help to solve all this cos i think most foreign wife are more understanding (i mean good one with no other motive) if they understand where u come from.
I do agree with u on what u say especially on marrying local can be more worst than marry a girl from a poor country as they are more demanding and they would prefer to divorce than saving the marriage.My wife always tell me is fated we are together and any problem between us and can be discuss.All marriage is full of ups and down,nobody will know what will happen next
