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Originally Posted by lugi
Put it simply, I'm going there at my own terms, not there specifically to see her parents or for them to see me. And I told her so. She said yah lah.. you always want FUN.
I've told her that I'm really a poor guy in Singapore struggling to make ends meet. And for the few times we went on holidays, I only book those 2-3 star hotels and eat at small restaurants, never those lavish ones. She has never asked me for anything in return.
At least so far so good for me. I always try to understand what they deem most important, their families etc. and I will tell them how much I love my family too. I would want to work hard and give them a better life, and she would agree whole heartedly. I would usually stop at that as I think that already sinks in. Maybe, she thinks I am at her level, striving hard to provide for the family so can empathise with me.
Things may change in the future, but at present, things are going well.  |
Remind me of the first time when i first know my wife or that time girlfriend.
I went and visit her and she bring me out to eat.We went to a place,not really a restaurant but look more like a small villa deco,i guess bro frequent there will know there is a lot over there.
I think was expensive so i stop her before going in and ask her is it expensive.she say no but i told her if eat inside i no enough money to pay how?
she double check with the security cum bike attendant uncle and she told me is cheap.Indeed it turn out cheap haha
One way to make her know i am poor and in the end she pay haha