[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

bro batty,i know what u mean.Taking precatious towards your foreign spouse is good but over precatious will do harm to a relationship.our culture is brought up to such a way whereby sg ppl is careful and will take extra precautious towards ppl and is more towards foreign ppl.there is nothing wrong but after u marry a foreign spouse,treat her as your wife,learn to understand her and know more about their culture.Let her know what u can and what u cannot do.Their thinking towards relationship,family and money is very different and if a sg man keep on thinking whether his foreign wife is having a hidden agenda by marrying him,then problems will start to occur

Agree totally, speaks from experience