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Originally Posted by batty
Hi bro Golden question. When your wife suggests to you that if you are a Vietnamese girl's boyfriend; may be she is testing you? Your answer could be,
"I can never be another Vietnamese girl's boyfriend because I love only you".
Sounds soppy, right?
What your wife says above is also interesting. After marriage, she does not sound demure and obedient. She also said she does not want a single cent/Vietnamese Dong from you if after you both are not in love. My understanding is some women will go after their exhusbands' assets even beyond the guys' death. She can try to claim through Singapore's Inheritance laws.
A few more thoughts:
How long do Vietnamese women take to learn Mandarin, English or Singlish?
I notice in Western societies, a few wives murder their husbands for money, although romantic love is held in high esteem there. Poisoning is one of the methods of killing. How unlikely/likely will a few very evil Vietnamese wives murder their Singaporean husbands for money? The answer can be the Singaporean husbands are worth more alive than dead. I reckon this is more likely to happen in Vietnam than in Singapore. Usually by poison and hired assassins? I have never, never heard of Vietnamese women killing Singaporeans which is just as well. But I am very sure PRC people have killed Singaporeans.
What about crimes of passion? Will a few Vietnamese women freak out and kill? I think it is very unlikely because they are not overly expressive in nature. There is probably no answer. Very sorry to offend any bro.
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bro batty,i know what u mean.Taking precatious towards your foreign spouse is good but over precatious will do harm to a relationship.our culture is brought up to such a way whereby sg ppl is careful and will take extra precautious towards ppl and is more towards foreign ppl.there is nothing wrong but after u marry a foreign spouse,treat her as your wife,learn to understand her and know more about their culture.Let her know what u can and what u cannot do.Their thinking towards relationship,family and money is very different and if a sg man keep on thinking whether his foreign wife is having a hidden agenda by marrying him,then problems will start to occur