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Originally Posted by rokhard
This is a good post, bro, and I rated you!
I will try RedTantra when I have the time but I am not sure if I can get value from their high charges. So far, I have not heard anyone giving a definite thumbs up for RedTantra and the service is 90 minutes: for me, that's a sure indication that it is too short for tantric enjoyment. I have opined that it is not possible for a full tantric session in Singapore (our hectic lifestyles: rush, rush; cheap and good expectation; fast-forward high expectations etc), unless there's an authentic, secretive practitioner who is serving a very exclusive, quiet and off-radar clientele.
If you are a fan of a masseuse from RedTantra, why would you find Christina's charges on the high side? They are in the same ballpark, no?
As for some people not learning, I can only say that each of us have our strengths and weaknesses: you can't teach me how to dance, but I am a pistol crackshot. Life's like that, you win some and you lose some.
And talk about touch pressure, I know as a sniper that your trigger pressure must be just right (trigger pull after trigger pull: muscle memory). Your arm has to be steady and you have to breathe right, and you need the instincts to know where you want to place your shot. You can't really teach this. This logic applies to massage as well: the touch pressure must be just right (if too soft you can't feel and if too hard you don't enjoy), the muscle memory must be there to apply the same pressure, the breathing must be right and the instincts: oh yeah you simply can't teach this, the masseuse needs to know where to place the 'shot'. Why should we be surprised that some didn't learn from Christina's class?
Ya I can understand that yoni massage is not as simple as sticking your fingers in. Its like the time, a so-called tantric masseuse unceremoniously stuck a finger in and I really didn't enjoy that: it was more violation than bliss.
You could PM Katespadeheart: she might be interested in the male masseur. I got my issues.
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Thanks mate and I am not sure how the ratings work anyway. Not too concerned with it.
For RedTantraMassage, as you mentioned, it is definitely too expensive if you compare dollar to dollar with others. I am not a fan in case you misunderstood. However if I have to choose between a crappy massage and a semi-professional massage and pay more, I will do it. I also like to go for sessions that are at least 4 hours or more but in Singapore, its just too expensive. Actually a 4 hours session that I had recently in California costs me around USD460. If you compare dollar to dollar, its still not that bad and I had a great time.
From what I understand in Christina's case, you need several sessions and its not a one-off sorta of thing. As such, it would turn out to be way more expensive that you think it will cost. Personally I would just spend the money on actual hands-on sessions, chat with the therapist and learn from there. By the way, I believe Christina offers hands-on sessions but for a premium if I am not wrong.
In regards to touch, it is more than touch pressure for me. Its the techniques that is used in combination as well. For example, in one of my recent session overseas, I experienced the therapist using kneading techniques to start off the massage instead of the usual swedish style. It was a nice surprise and she was damn good at it which I found out later that she was a certified massage therapist.
I will share this recent session that I had as it was very interesting. There were many things and sensations that I have not experienced before. She also used her fingertips (not her fingernails!) to start off the lingam massage with soft strokes which was a first for me. Throughout the session, she also kept whispering to me which was very sensual as it feel very initimate but not sleazy. She also rubbed her yoni against my elbow while kneading my back which felt sensual and non-invasive. In fact, I was not aware of it until much later! This was again another first for me. Last but not least, we communicated before the start of the session to find out what makes me aroused and she make use of that element to heighten the experience. In my case, it was feet and she used her feet to do seducing etc.
I probably will not PM katespadeheart. I will wait for her PM if she is interested. I do know of many guys who want to learn yoni massage so they can practice on their wives or girlfriends.
For the sticking of a finger in, I did indeed experience it before and felt like I was in some kind of science experiment.
Maybe we should catch up some day and have a glass of wine to further discuss tantric massage. I really enjoyed reading your posts in this thread. I seldom see someone that is so into tantric massage nowadays with the advent of escorts and what-nots.