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Originally Posted by OysterLover
hahaha maybe you should start a school on the tantric ways  |
Not really, bro. I have had too much massage fun in the past 20 years. Even though I am familiar with the massage strokes and know which is most sensual for me, I can't really teach the stokes to the masseur.
Have you always fantasized about being a teacher? I did. I was good at a subject and decided to live out this fantasy. What I realized from this teaching experience was that the mastery of a few topics does not prepare you for teaching the entire subject.
It is the same with massage: even if you know a few strokes, a few angles and a few good moves, it cannot be the entire massage. That is why now, for 90% of the pleasure, I search for and hold on to the masseur with great patience (dedicated to her craft and prepared to give all her attention), the exact touch pressure and muscle memory (to execute the same moves over and over again) and the sensual instinct (to know where to be, how long and how much to please).
For the remaining 10%, I just communicate what I need from the masseur and if she is prepared to listen and learn my needs, bingo I have touch down.