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Originally Posted by BiRd13
So far I have tried redtantramassage.com
Its' a good experience though... Price wise kind of costly... But I think it's worth it...
Bro Bird13, can you share your detailed experience with RedTantra? Location, cost, duration, were both of you clothed/nude? Was there a nameste greeting? did the practitioner go straight towards your erogenous zones or started with slow, hynoptic touches and caresses to help you enter into a deeper state? Did she bring you to the high and low waves? Did you need to communicate with her or did she knew when to pull back (from ejaculation)? Why was it worth the $320 (you got the 90 minute package?)? Is it because you climaxed without cumming or when you ejaculated, it was mind blowing?
Bro... Hope below helps:
1) Not neccessary there will be ejaculation. For tantric massage, their main purpose/aim is not for u to ejaculate... But prolong your immunity towards it... It's like JG... just that they don't 'attack' the penis area directly... but more towards your groin area, or even body....
2) The therapist may not strip naked through out the session. And you will be in disposable undies...
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Yup, I agree. Tantric massage is not necessarily about ejaculation. When I enter into the deeper sensual consciousness, I have the chance of encountering a more satisfying experience. In fact, I get uptight nowadays when I sense a masseur is rushing to get me to cum and I will halt the whole session immediately. Once I cum, it is over and the deep sensual experience ends.
They say the brain is the biggest sexual organ and I think that Tantric Massages engages the brain in the sensual experience; I don't connect with what they say about the soul's participation in tantra. Maybe this is why I enjoy, crave the good tantric experience because I get this high and low wave, and explosion: it is in fact a dopamine, serotonin rush.
I think the biggest problems in the Tantra, JG or other similar sensual massages are 1. the expectation of the broes 2. time and cost limitations.
Some of the broes expect to always have a happy ending and this will impact on the practitioner meeting this commercial expectation. I guess we have ourselves to blame if we communicate (or don't communicate) our expectation to cum. If we want to ride the sensual waves (or experience the very rare cum-less multi-climax as I did) or retain our cum for health or also for explosive ejaculation in subsequent sessions (read:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taoist_sexual_practices
http://www.hps-online.com/tsy4.htm
http://www.nine3.com/Magic.html
http://www.healing-tao.co.uk/Article...on_Formula.htm), then
then we need to discipline ourselves and learn how to control our ejaculation: it is good for our strength and health. I understand that the Chinese Emperors practiced cum-retention when they had sex with their concubines: the eunuchs made sure of this for the health and strength of the emperor. In fact, it is thought that cumming every opportunity is bad for your health.
The other problem is that we can't have a 3 to 4 hour tantra session. It is only possible for those with a lot of time and money to spend. Inevitably, it is my personal view that even the authentic tantric practitioner needs to be 'practical', which means getting straight to the sensual aspect of the tantric massage. Even with my practical realization, I think you need 90 minutes at the very least; 2 hours will be good. No noise or disturbance to disrupt the waves.
Then there is the cost limitation. I have mentioned that in SG, the cost is between $150 (Mary/Maya) and $320 (RedTantra) for 90 minutes. I think when most broes look at these cost amounts, they would be turned off and just seek out the normal service providers for their fun and release. This is unfortunate because the more one ejaculates (especially with less 30 minutes of touch, caress and strokes), my personal view is that this will harm us more than help us. We begin to lose (over time) our ejaculation control, stamina and ability to experience the explosive climax.