The real Tantra is a very slow massage that enables the recipient to receive a deep sexual experience. It is Indian in origin and very old. Very similar to Yoga, its practitioners even consider this a spiritual experience. One even begins with a Namaste greeting and invitation.
In my view, Tantra is a form of sensual massage, but very different in the way it seeks to excite the body, as well as the mind. That is why the masseur uses slow touches, caresses and massages, beginning with the head, and encouraging the recipient to breathe deeply and slowly, build up the sexual energy first in the mind and then moving on to the body.
Lingam massage is for men and Yoni massage is for women.
In Lingam massage, the man’s testicles, anus, prostrate and the penis will be touched, caressed and massaged. The aim is not ejaculation, which is why tantric massages tend to be at least 2 hours. Through the ejaculation control, the man’s pleasure tempo will surge and withdraw (like waves), and the sensual energy is encouraged and made to flow, spread and radiate throughout the body, so that the man will enter and be immersed in an expanded state of pleasure and bliss. If done correctly, the man may experience climax without ejaculation.
My experience so far suggests to me that Cici (
http://beijing.locanto.cn/ID_1125782...-MASSEUSE.html) and Maya/Mary (
http://mymantrasg.com/about.html) are not authentic Tantra practitioners. In the case of Cici, after a short yet gentle Swedish back massage, she proceeded to excite the anus and prostrate (which some forummers have experienced as HDLY or hai di lao yu). These are not the same, though the effect is similar. Then there is a slow massage of the penis, anus, prostrate and testicles in the build up. In this experience, my penis was erect during most of the 2 hour massage and I managed to experience (for the first time) multiple climaxes without ejaculating. In the case of Maya/Mary, I received a regular Swedish massage for the greater part of the session, then in the last third of the session I experienced some of Juagen and then penetration of the anus. I could not connect with this style and was limp, not enjoying the massage.
I suppose none of us can really afford true tantric massage, which is so slow and extended that you need more than 2 hours to really enjoy an authentic tantric experience. A typical 90 minute massage offered in most places means there is a need to ‘get to the point’, which is why you miss out on the slow build up and the practitioners zooms in on the man’s erogenous zones. For this reason, I would describe Cici and Maya’s tantric massage as Pseudo-Tantra/Lingam Massage. I might even describe these as extra slow, sensual prostrate massages.
Also, ta 90 minute tantric massage in Singapore will cost between $150 and $320, which I am sure will turn off most of the broes.
I have not tried Red Tantra Massage (
http://www.redtantramassage.com/) so I can’t comment if it is authentic or Pseudo-Tantra/Lingam Massage. There are also a few other practitioners that I am not familiar with:
http://www.tantricmassage.com.sg/tantric-massage.php
http://tantra.sg/
I am still searching for authentic and affordable tantric massage in Singapore. In place of this, I would settle for extra slow, sensual prostrate massages. I have experienced these in the now defunct Dorris Health Center. My aim is to stay rok hard, improve my erection stamina and experience again the multiple cum-less orgasm.