After so many discussion ... I guessed the most important thing is
*** If you CANNOT TRUST your GF .... then DON'T be Together ... What's the Point ... *** Like Bro Hurricane quoted ...
There are Gals who really come here and work to support whatever need to be supported back at VN .....
There are also Gals who comes here just for $$$ .. Yes maybe they really love you but they also need $$$ , cannot get from you so get from other CARROT ... but then they still love you.
So i guessed, it boils down to luck on whoever you have chosen .... either you stick to your your choice or find another 1 ....
For me, I never find a girl who come to Singapore to work for moer than 1-2-3-4 years ... i guessed they KC you better than you KC them.
Like many BROs say .... there are many Better Gals out there in SG or in VN ...
Having a VN GF or BX is not about just financing $$$ ... it's the time and effort ..
Whether your GF or BX CAN be trusted ... It's up to you to find out and believe in it .... NO ONE can help you .... You have to take your own steps ... visit them regularly ... talk to them regularly and etc ...
So Ask yourself ... How often can you visit her in VN? How much truth can you take?
My quote : My Wife is REALLY Different from other Gals ... REALLY ...
Rgds
