I went hcm during the weekend and went out with 4vn girls to disco, all work in Singapore before and 3 was caught before. Was in the cab with them when one of the girls received a call from her boyfriend I think. She told her bf in mandarin that she going out to buy things and will call him later. The funny thing is everyone, including me and the cab driver, keep quiet and never make noise.
That day I was drunk and my vn girlfriend call me in the cab. She ask me if I am with any girl or not and I say no. I pass the phone to the cab driver and he told her I was alone while the 4 girls keep quiet behind. I just think that is quite funny cos no one need to say anything and will coordinate with the rest.
It also make me wonder if my girlfriend is really home when she is talking to me. So many times the vn girls will tell their bf that they not feeling well and at home when they are actually in my car and going to hotel with me. It also make me think if my vn girl is doing the same to me.
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Firstly happy new year 2011 to all bros and wish u guys the best for this year.
I have been in contact with a viet gal for about one year ever since she was deported back from Spore and i am seriously looking for some advice from the viet bros who are married to vietnamese or have been in a serious relationship with vietnamese...
I would like to thank in advance any bros who bother to read and replies to my thread whether good or bad comments , greatly appreciate as long as it comes from the heart.
Here is my story :
Got to know this viet gal in Spore in dec 2009 ... she was deported back in may 2010 until now we have been in contact ever since.... we speak to each other on a daily basis... i have been up to vn to vist her 4 times ever since she was deported back .. but honestly i dunno much about that place..
I have asked for her father her hand in marriage with her around he replied to me saying that if you are serious bring your parents up to discuss.. i have been to her province in "tien gang" and have seen her relatives but seriously i think all these do not mean anything special..
Her family is quite big.. she have 2 elder sisters now ... 3 small kids .. one is her daugther which is 9 years old the other two belongs to her elder daughter who passed on and the husband is not around.. she have an elder brother and a younger sister , her mother and her father who is very very sick now... all these i seen with my own eyes...
So far from my knowledge , the 2 elder sisters r not working but they are married already .. her bro , her younger sis and mom are also not working.. She say she is the only reponsible one taking care of the family .. her mom , dad and the 3 small kids...
i can tell that money is very important to her.. she tells me she is in debts.. but i dunno how much truth is there in that.. she asks me for money like on a regular basis once or twice a month ... in the past i use to quarrell and get pissed off with her over this money issue constantly.. until now at this level i have accepted money is important to her and give her some allowance every month...
She tell me she is in debts .. which i seriously dunno.. she ask me to help her settle her debt .. which the amount is the same as the allowance i give her.. so now the allowance money i dun give i just give money to settle her debts monthly which in the end makes no difference actually.
I can feel that she cares for me.. she have expressed her feelings of wanting to come back to singapore and have a future with me...but i really dunno if she comes back to spore will she cock up anot ... she have asked me questions like :when i come back spore where do we stay ? will your mum and siblings accept me ?
Than sometimes she tells me that she feels that she is wasting my time because of her sitaution .. sometimes ask me to wait sometimes tell me to just do whatever i want..
she also have expressed her feelings of wanting her daughter to come to singapore to stay or whichever as long as we three are together...
The bad thing is .. she have lied to me many times before.. she is not totally honest with me.. ... She have vietanmese guy at vn i have caught her a few times already... i found out when the viet guy called me and send me stupid smses.. how did he get my no? ... surely when he was with her together la ... i think he does not like what is goin on between me and her... i questioned her about this.. she told me he and her used to be lovers.. is he something more to her are they together or just fling? i really dunno la... i know she really cares for me sometimes when i see the things she do.. but sometimes when all these happen i really dunno what to say ...
Many people tell me slowy take my time to see.. but the more i see the more i get blur....
bro's any advice.. the bro's who are married to viets or have been with viets in long relationships.. what do u think.. am i in a tragic comedy ????
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