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Old 13-09-2010, 05:03 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by xgrubx View Post
Hi guys, i'm a newb here.. have been reading thru the postings for maybe past 2 years, here's my story and i'll like you masters to review it for me as i believe your point of view are most sceptical than what i see now, pretty blind now.

met her in a ktv 2 months back, got to know her better thru bringing her out for dinner, she was caught by ICA when she reported to them after she lost her passport, not long after, she bought her own ticket and went back home, she's only 18 and have been working in the KTV in vietnam for 3 months since her 18th birthday, not long after, i went to visit her, stayed at her place for a week, she wasnt working then and i felt obligated to give her some money, from there, she asked me if i can give her 5mil vnd everymonth, she told me she'll be working in a clothing manufacturing company which she claim to pay her 1.8mil a month, so i thought over and due to the fact i like to see her, i went back to vietnam last wednesday without letting her know, gave her a mega surprise... it was dissapointing, she said she was going to work, and i decided to check things out, 1st place i went was the KTV she used to work, spot on! saw her motorbike there, i went to the manager asked for a room and wanted to see her coming in with mamasan, too bad she was alarmed and she rushed home. =( i left hcmc on friday, now i'm not sure if everything was just a joke or what, why would she want me to stay with her family, why she lied about the fact that her sister and brother in law knows she work in a KTV, i don't understand why she will go in a rage when i tell her, stop working in a ktv, thing bout her is as what she says: my mother don't have a house, i want to buy a house for my mother, understand she did made some money but splurge it in disco with friends, even when i'm there, she has these taiwanese customers calling her out for dinner and things like that, she says when her mother gets the house, she want to marry me.. Brothers here, please advice as i am really on the edge. thanks.
she still young and has been working in ktv only for 3 months (i assume). the lure of easy money is very great and I personally dun think she will settle down so fast. unless you are very rich, i dun think so. also unless she has been working in ktv for many years and her family matters has all been settled and wishes to settle for a simple life.

and there will be other things after her mother get the house. believe me... and i think most of the bros here will agree.