Met my gf on my 2nd trip to HCM, till now still dont know whether to take it seriously or not, still battling heart vs. mind i guess.
Few weeks ago, she asked for help cause her sis-in-law having a first born baby girl. I refused and said bluntly sms her that just been a few weeks and asking for money?!? We better stop ctc then. Then she felt sorry and said if u cannot it's ok, and keep apologising for hurting my feeling blah blah blah. I stopped ctc her till my 3rd trip.
3rd trip, arrived on the 14 of August morning, and planned to have weekend fun with my friend only. Did not inform her that i am in HCM. Called 166 karaoke mami, asking whether possible to get ta pao girl there. She said yes, yes, she can arrange, khong sao, khong sao. Anyway arrived at 166 Karaoke and mamasang brought a SYT (really SYT, better than SingViet Charlie Angels i guess
) Sorry bro Singviet, i can post a photo here to prove, but dont know how to attached pic. Anyway cut story short, the mamasang was lying, cannot ta pao
.
Disappointed went back to hotel and called my gf, and found she so angry for not letting her know. End up all weekend till Monday the 16, she next to me the whole time.
It was a great weekend though, all money spent on drinks (3 chivaz and etc), drunk-sex weekend
But this time, i bought her a necklace worth $400. I dont mind getting her presents, but as for giving $$$ cash, i think my mind still stronger than my heart.
Added: she took me to her house in D7 and show the cute baby girl, her brother and SIL were there. She is sooo small and cute. Also FYI, her house is not that bad, clean and nice just like a very small 2 room HDB here. They made their money for the house in D7 from selling the house in D4 which she bought at very very low price in 2001 (after the eco crash) for 120MIL dong, which then she sold it for much much higher price, cause they cannot pay the morgage. That's what she told me, i dont have a clue whether is true or not.