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Originally Posted by hottip
I think you need to start off with mutual respect to begin with. If the girl is stereotyped as a WL, then a longterm relationship is a non-starter, as she will always be seen as such and treated as such. I made a mistake once on a very sweet young lady, and suddenly realized how wrong I was, and indeed made up to her later. Although we remain good friends, I am never sure if the episode is ever erased from her mind, even that it wasn't that serious.
Tel comms Sgp-VN is very expensive both ways. Singtel charges S$1.15 (VND16k) per min. It adds up very quickly. 10mins=S$11.15. Even sms's from here are: S$0.60(VND$8k) a pop. It adds up very quickly. I think it is even more ex in VM for them to make overseas calls and sms s. If u figured that you can get a good Pho lunch for one minute's talktime, phone calls are a luxury item. My friend has email, so it helps alot. I also leave her some budget money to top up her card and she responses once a day. I usually call her instead of getting her to call me or sms back.
If you want a successful longterm relationship. Establish the friendship first. You can then figure out the compatibility for a longterm partnership, if not compatible, you can still remain friends. Its not about Fxxk&Forget anymore.
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truly understooded bro hottip..
I too don wanna make that mistake of treating her like a WL. but I have to work out on the trust issue. I'm paranoid by nature. So still tring to work out the issue. I think I should just play along cos and take thing as it comes. So far she hasn't lied to me. We only had some communication breakdown.
As for the SMSing and calling thingy, I understand that it's expensive for my bx. I will SMS her most of the time and will be ok if she doesn't reply or take a day to reply. But she'll always apologise when she reply late. Sweet girl. O don usually call her because we'll be usually lost in translation when we yoked on the phone(no hand signals mah) hahaha..
I learnt a lot of things about the VN girls and the relationship issues from this forum! Kudos to the residents here.. You guys have been a lot of help in giving insights bout my bx.