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Originally Posted by lovesprout
So far we only know that guy is a taxi driver. It is too general. Believe it or not, cabby in Singapore can have a PhD degree from Stanford University!
A Singapore Taxi Driver's Diary
Therefore, please provide more details about him so we can make better suggestions. There are more than 2 million men in Singapore. Why are you only interested in this one? I am sure you are from a decent family. Definitely you can have many choices. |
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Originally Posted by Thom07
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Originally Posted by Thom07
A relationship takes 2 hands to clap in unison.
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Originally Posted by pterchew
juz ask him directly if he suka you or not, if the answer is yes, carry-on.
if is not, than dont waste each other time n move-on.  |
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Originally Posted by tomcat007
Bro
Don't think bonbonbebe understand what is suka... LOL!! Unless she's a super multi-language talented Vietnamese girl who happens to know TV/English/Chinese/Malay...
suka => like
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Originally Posted by haha_123
I guess he is feeling inferior because he is a taxi driver while you are going to work in court. I will feel uncomfortable too if my wife earns more than me. But then this is just my guessing only. It's better to ask him personally and tactfully, without hurting his feelings.
Like my cheong buddy always remind to me: "Mien qiang shi mei you xing fu de" meaning "Happiness cannot be forced".
Few years ago I was in a much worse situation than you. I got smitten by a China ktv girl, and I even travel all the way to Shanghai to find her. Needless to say, I was looking for my "true love" in the wrong place.
At least for you, you are not in a relationship yet. So if not compatible, you can always look for another more suitable man.
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Originally Posted by pterchew
LOVE and $$$ are the 2 things that can make a man or woman go hay wire.
some say, women can bring trouble to us. is very true, so we must go
along with this game very tactfully. dont get hurt and dont hurt other 2. |
Thank many bros giving away ur advice here.
I'm really confused. I like him, but not love him. I dont think about marriage at my age. And I dont think about money issue too. I'm not the kind of galz living in countryside hooking up for a man because of his money (n if I'm that kind of gal, I'm not hook into a cabby
).
We argued about money over and over. I remember last time we must make a deal, that never talk about money in our conversation. But I really dont think money issue makes any sense here. Am i wrong? He blamed on me to be a city gal with the materialism in gene
, never suffer the poverty blah blah blah.
Be4 my last trip to KL and btw visit SG to c him, he often told that he likes me, he kind of fallen with me, he missed me etc. But after my last trip, he never say that. Some days ago I asked him, do u like me, then he just changed the topic of the conversation.
Ok some bros asked y I like him. To b frankly it's just a weird feeling. At the first sight I caught his friendliness. Maybe because of his job. N then we have time to talk. He work at night shift while my left-hand job is working at night also. Instead of having a break by sipping kopi, I have a break by texting to him. He told me about what he suffered in his life, etc. Of course I half believed, maybe he wants to trick me only. Until someday I think I fell into his trap n liked him.
It's not a love. We just know each other in very short time. And meet each other only 2 times. Not consider about long term or marriage, even to a relationship I also feel worried. 进退两难 lah! Maybe he had put black magic on me!