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Originally Posted by SingViet
The first part of your message do make some sense and how you describe yourself to be very educated and earns a reasonable amount of renumeration. But i do not agree in any part on how you put across this final part of your statement. Different countries have different cultures. Asia is very much different from the western world. Westerners often look down on asians , thinking that asians are losers and that westerners are always the best. Thru the years, we have seen how the world economies have changed. Although the westerners are trying hard to feel `special', we cannot but feel sad for them as the western world are losing out to rising asia. I am not trained in law, this cannot write as well as you. But i hold postgraduate degrees in Finance from top UK universities. I stayed in Uk for several years pursuing my studies and also have my fair share of years more than 4 staying in HCM City Vietnam. I have businesses in both Singapore and Vietnam, stays in a S$2.5 million landed property, 2 maids and owns 2 cars. I travel monthly by business class to HCM City and have a reasonable amount of income that triple yours easily. Not to continue listing down but i do not find the need to pass insults to fellow samsters. The reason why westerns, including Australians, are targets of terrorism are often linked to their lack of humility.
Your roots are asian and you should try to shape your thinking according to asian cultures. Think of how your father or grand father first landed in Australia and how they were looked down by the white australians. Why put your fellow asians thru the same type of insult again. Asian is asian, no matter how you try to BANANA, you are still an asian to the whites.
Listing down your ideas and sharing it with others is good, but to add insults and sacastic remarks is a big NO NO here.
I always welcome your contributions here in this thread but respect given to others is a good way of making your life more meaningful.
Cheers
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i sorry my thoughts have been misunderstood...i am not saying the western way or asian way is better or worse...what i am saying is that if you have very little social worth, ie overweight, unattractive low education etc, then thinking you can buy your way into a girls heart in the long run will only end in misery for you...this applies to asians i see here in singapore and the fat old white men i see in thailand and pattaya...and the viet kieus who bring back SYt back to australia and the US etc.
So in my opinion it is better to work on improving your self with what ever capacity you have rather than thinking you can buy your way into a girls heart. This applies to 80 dollar lap dances, 20 dollar kc SESSIONS IN A VIET PUB or what ever you want to call it, hookers are for sexual services, not to be romanced...and if u want to do that then dont feel shocked if you get burnt.
obviously there will be guys with some very deep pockets and this is are mere hobby for them kc whore etc, but i dont recall hearing them cry...my comments are for the guys who spend 1000 bucks at a ktv then eat instant noodles the rest of the month
As to my own social worth, all i have said can be mere fantasy or reality, its not of any consequence on this forum.
again this is just my 2 cents and sorry if i have offended anyone