Got married this year to a vietnamese. now shes pregnant, expecting our baby next year. her mum will be coming over to look after for her 1st month.
she have a friend that brought her mum-in-law to stay and look after his baby of 3 months old, while his wife goes to work.
now she asking me to do the same for her mum

she wants to work so that she can send money home to fix the house, and to buy land for her parents. after that she can take it easy as she don't have to worry about her parents livelihood.
currently i am sending some money to her parents to help them once every few months.