Just giving my input for the questions...
1) You do so much bonking, are you scared that you would get STD's esp. the lifelong ones or get HIV?
Yes.. the thought of that does come and sometimes the thought of giving up the scene due to the above risks.. But then the temptation is just too great. Again.. as in all things, there will always be risk involved... Even eat beancurd also can choke mah.. So just play and take the necessary protection lor. Not 100% risk free, but can minimise the risk, so why not..
2) I am guessing you have protected sex because you bonk so much, but I realize that you french kiss and all, so aren't you like more at risk of getting HIV and STD's etc??
Frenching will also tio if you have like those small ulcers, cos that is where there is open wound and the risk will be there. As with BBBJ too.. Again part of the risk taken to engage in FL.
3) Are you intending to get married and have kids etc...because if you are then wouldn't your high risk activity cause you problems if you want to do that?
Yes.. for singles, eventually we may want to settle down. Perhaps once we have a gf, our activity may cut down, since now got a specific lady we can get our release from. But then people will always say.. eat same dish everyday also sian.. So its pretty much to individual as well.
4) I really want to do what you are doing as I am not very young and I have not experienced so much as you do....but I had one unprotected sex with a CW and I was freaking out.....and I am guessing you are not at all? how come?
Having unprotected sex... when was that?? Just go for a check to get urself cleared lor.. Again the emphasis is on protection lah... Control the small head is essential.