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Old 12-03-2009, 12:15 AM
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Re: Need advice

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Originally Posted by colins View Post
I think anyone has freedom to go anywhere visit anyone. That is your right, your choice, no right no wrong. But I guess in your context, just stay away from her la. To be frank, for 2 persons to be really close to each other, and you thinking that she is with you not for money, she won't just disappear becos you refuse to give her 200. It may be nothing to you, it can also be nothing to her, but it shows a lot lo. To me, it shows that she is not really that close to you, at least not emotionally attached. And it also shows that you still got some defence mechanism, which is good. Dun waver in your choice if you have decided not to help her financially, one day when you calm down a little, you know this is probably the only part saving your butt from a KC trap.
I seriously agree with brother collin ... i just started being a smart samster nowdays .. don`t fall into kc of wl / fls .. will do u harm den u think ... the gfe feelings and whatever she said came with doubts ..

Think properly , consolidate ur tots and play her back la.. if u need sex den go find her , if feelings go find gal frens la ... i rather spend my money asking a date out den spend money testing a wl`s feeling for me ..