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Originally Posted by SingViet
I agree with you totally. When you have a family, it means financial burdenstarting.
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VERY TRUE. but if you are able to change your lifestyle after marriage, i.d less outing and partying, less eating out, drive smaller car or regulate driving, less of everything... all the money saved can be use fruitfully.
most people cannot adapt to a change in lifestyle thats where the problem comes.
With less of outing, partying and eating out it means more time spend with partner. This will improve the relationship and understanding.
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Originally Posted by SingViet
I remember when i first came back to singapore, i stayed with my parents for 2 months and its seriously not easy. Lots of nagging and lots of unhappiness.
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My mum says that she do accept foreign daughter-in-law and able to get along with anyone. Quoting example of my bro wife. I told her straight in the face that only my dad and me can tahan her. Bro and his wife always not in sillypore so it is not affecting them.
I also tells her that if i got married again and if vn wife cannot get along with her whille staying together, I will definitely move out.
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Originally Posted by SingViet
The reason why so many marriages break down nowadays is inproper planning, too little endurance and inability to take responsbility. So spend some time to think. |
agrees that little endurance causes marriage breakdown... this was what happened to me. Lesson learnt.
