[colins]

In order for truthfulness to be viewed, bros have to be judgemental in the respect of standpoint. From what I see, it is how words are put across and so far all the bros say it out quite objectively, addressing trend and characters rather than the poor fellow who is now dead becos he was not taught to control his emotions.

A smart person, to be frank, is also smart in handling emotions. Otherwise the brain is likely to be used for very mechanically work, like studying. The thought process simply cannot handle irrational things like relationships.

From a judgemental view from aku, fellow never suffer defeat in his life, being throw into the pits where all are wanting to win trophies of academic excellence, he emerged victorious many times until all that he achieved became all that he had in his life. For 25 years he was king in his own world of family, friends and schoolmates. Little did he know, or even understand why he could not win a simple girl who may not even be on par with a 'normal sg girl'. A close friend got the girl as well, double whammy effect, he lost his most beloved and his most trusted. This probably flipped him becos these 2 person were probably the only 2 personal friends in his life.

See the situation where he killed himself. There must be a confrontation between the 3, childhood friend told him he got the girl, the girl he liked told him to stay away from now on, he was helpless and knew that from then on, he would be alone. In relationship, there are no compromise, they made up their mind to exclude you, no such thing as give you GFE a bit first, girlfriend means girlfriend to a fellow only. So he had no room for his pleads to be realised, no space of negotiation between him and the girl he liked. I guess in the end he threatened, saying things like if you guys still dun listen to me and give me a chance, I'll prove my sincerity, I'll prove I love you more, I'll prove that with the only thing I have, my life. Having no room given, he did the only thing he could do, he went and prove it.

The defeat is not to his pal, not his girl. The scholar had finally lost to himself. That's the part which is the most unbearable.