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Originally Posted by SingViet
Different brothers share different ideas and let's respect each other's views. I respect the view of some brothers that not all WL are bad, and i feel this statement is true to certain extend. But my experience in vietnam also tells me that most WL cannot be trusted, until they show change in behaviour and thinking after marriage.
Flying into vietnam once in a while is never enough to truely understand the vietnamese culture. Even if you go Joo Chiat 365 days a year will not increase yr knowledge of vietnam much. Try to stay in Vietnam continuous for 1 year or more and i am sure your thinking will change and will understand why my thinking is different from most bros here. Even after so many years, i am still learning.
Enough is said and discussed about WL and some brothers are tired while others are strained. Let'e not spoil relations with this discussion.  |
Wise words from an experienced bro! Thanks for enlightening us on the difference in living in Vietnam vs going back frequently. I am sure there is a big difference. Bro Singviet has a point in his words!
WL or not, I am sure they are still Vietnamese partners .. so maybe we want to drop the occasional reference to WLs vs Non WLs and concentrate on main idea of this thread: UNDERSTANDING VIETNAMESE LIFE PARTNERS!
