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Old 20-10-2008, 12:13 PM
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Re: Need help in dealing with a very painful Divorce.

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Originally Posted by lancer76 View Post
I really do not want to lose this marriage.
A couple gets married due to Yin Yuan.....Yin Guo, through many past lives it is build (teaching in Buddhism I guess, with my limited understands).

Do what you need and could to savage back your marriage, but be prepared to let go the past if things cannot be helped or saved. Your life could be miserable in the beginning, but don't do anything to hurt her or yourself, just let the incident goes through time, time will numbed your heart and the incident will soon be placed in a part of your mind far away and soon becomes history.

Avoid movies, songs, places that reminds you of the past relationship, don't keep holding on to it or have any hopes (hopes only disappoints a man), keep yourself busy with work (get a job), do things that you like that occupied ALL your time.

Way to go Bro, you can walk out of it, time will prove just that.
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