[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by lancer76

i'm in the process of getting a divorce. i know it's my fault because i've grown so used to her as we were very good friends before we got married, took her for granted for too long and this is the end result.. i do not want to get a divorce but she's very firm on it. I've never seen her like that at all dat's why i'm lost right now but since we've not seen any lawyer yet i'm letting her kinda cool off for a week or 2 than i'll start my operation. So i hope i'll succeed wish me luck. I really do not want to lose this marriage. wish me luck bros.

Thanks for all the advise from you guys. Really appreciate it.

Sorry to hear this bro...but u have fallen into the typical trap of getting married. The stats of divorce cases are rising yearly though marriage yearly is as much as well.

U married for the wrong reason, very good friends. Of cos there are couples whom are very good friends turn out to have a happy ending as well. But majority doesnt.

Let her cool off is a good thing. But since u said she is firm, u have to and must move on. U dun have a choice. Being despo / down / depress / sad / give up life, does not help her to come back. And all ur actions, she cant be bothered to take a second view.