Re: Need help in dealing with a very painful Divorce.
Hi TS
Maybe you can let us know what sort of advice & assistance you need. I had been through a divorce once (dun think I will wish to go through it again), and I understand the agony and the immense mental torture.
Seriously, we can't offer you a fast solution, but what we can offer are some advice to ease your pain and smoothen the legal process.
Also, try to keep a clear and open mind, and avoid getting too emotional if there is no light out of this tunnel now. You can first tell your ex-spouse that "let's complete the legal process peacefully and we could continue as friend when it ends." & "otherwise, we will erase all good memories we share & leave ourselves with anger & frustration".
If you can accommodate her request, do it then.
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