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Old 17-09-2008, 12:21 PM
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Re: Advise please

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Originally Posted by adidas88 View Post
bro nanasky ... this is not about who's going to win or lose eventually ..
or how good the thai gals r .. or how senior one have been in the playing field .. etc etc ...

it's abt doing the right thing right and we r here to advise bro charmaine to let go and move on ..

ur intention might be good but it's was not convey in a positive way ...
ppl with low esteem will feel hurt if their ego is stroke and will cause further damage to a situation already going bad ...
u know what i mean .....

my 2 cents worth ...

It's NakaSky , not nanasky....hehe...

Win or lose in a relationship is all about your ego. Define winning in a relationship? The one who gets the last laugh?

Right or wrong , i believe although we try to convey the message to Bro Charmaine , he will still do whatever he deems fit even though we try to tell him it's not ethical/right to do so.

As I could see he is rather "hurt" in this relationship,i believe he would be irrational when he comes to making decisions.

But I seen all too many trying to get back their ego/pride , in the end hurting themselves more than trying to inflict more hurt on the other party.

I can foresee that if Bro Charmaine will feel so empty/hurt himself "should" he succeed to reach the final stages of the plan. Thai girls in this trade do not "trust" people that easily or take your word for it. ( even they said they believe in u )

Sometimes advice given must be from two ways,if all come from the soothing direction,might not work.