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Originally Posted by Hurricane88
1. Yes, alot of student or office lady works as part time FL.
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Add to that that many "ladies" will tease up the men to extreme, just to get some small things here and there. When I first arrived in VN, I had a lot of girls very "friendly", sometimes discussing about their underwears, or making some jokes, etc...
They were working colleagues, sounded promising. In fact sex in VN, or promises of possible sex is a commercial good most of the time. You can have a lot of girl friends that will never be girlfriends but always leave the suspense. They want something out of you, that's it.
If you go too far, they will talk about their 'darling' or boyfriend, that they are not happy, but they are serious, so maybe in the future, but now nonono!
You can invite them for coffee, dinner, all kind of bullshit, but the tradition is that 'they must be virgin before wedding', or they have a boyfriend, or it is not the 'vietnamese style' to go further. At the same time, you think they are good girls, but they get screwed every evening by their vietnamese boyfriends of course.
In fact, I worked with many young ladies, and most of them were debonked by their boyfriend when they were 15 or less years old.
If you work in the medical field, you find out two things. Most 15-25 years old women who can have childrens are aborted every other year or so, sometimes yearly, sometimes twice or 3 times a year ! It is extremely rare that a 40 years old woman has not been aborted mecanically 4 or 5 times times. They are extremely careless, and most do it bareback. Usually they came with their best girl friend, or their mother, the remaining of the family does not want to know, and will deny of course. When I discussed with people here, the girls go to be aborted by cureting like we go to drink a cup of coffee, it is unimportant, takes 15-30 minutes, and that's done. I know some that have been aborted every 3-4 months.
Second, there are plenty of dirty clinics or better to say private butcher houses (for the experts in Ha Noi, there is one in Ba Trieu) that makes first the abortions, some months old is still fine, they do not care, and second they rebuild the hymen so the girls are virgin again.
I have seen extensive damage from thoses clinics as well. If I say that, it's because I hate the fact that many ladies are very very easy with their vietnamese boyfriend, but when it comes to a foreigner, they think they have to play a kind of conservative-vietnamese tradition 'don't touch me' game.
So far for the 'virgins in Viet Nam'. Many play that with non-vietnamese men to let to believe that they are serious, but I have yet to see one really very serious vietnamese girl, public and private.