After 5 days, I finally finish reading this thread. I dun have much experience with VN gal, just a brief encounter (no hanky panky) a few years ago (I think 2003-2004) which I will relate here.
At that time, I visited HCMC with some Japanese colleagues and they like to go to lounges, a bit like the type of KTV in Cuppage minus the actual karaoke. So when we arrived, a girl was assigned to each guy, the lounge is quite brightly lit, so no hanky panky stuff. In my mind, I was quite aware that VN is still a communist place and I read that you are not allowed to bring girls into hotels, yes, I read up before going there..thought I can do some cheonging.
Anyway, the girl that was assigned to me was a university student (she said) studying english..(dunno if they all used the same line), so after chit-chat, the night ended and we exchanged phone nos. Went back to hotel and sleep. The next day was a free day for me, so I called her and she seem quite happy to get my call. Since I was new to HCMC, I asked her to come and meet me at my hotel. At that time, I think I was staying in New World Hotel (opposite a huge park), dunno if the name is correct or not. I did not have any ulterior motive (like getting into her pants) because I was still very skeptical about the whole communist thing. I was just trying to kill some time before my flight back to SG in the evening. She came about noon time and we went across to a small restaurant to have some lunch.
After that, we went back to my hotel and I brought her to my room for chit chat, but she had to register at the front desk first (it was daylight). Anyway, went to my room and I was not sure what will happen. While she sat on the bed, I sat on the sofa and we chit chat for a while. I did not dare to make any advances, not sure what would happen. Actually, I was more afraid that if I touched her, she may cry rape or something, then I will be in deep shit. So, nothing happened in the end.
After about 20mins chit-chat and showing her the view from my hotel room window, we got down and had a drink at the lobby. We even got the bellboy to take some photos of us.
Soon, it was time for me to leave to airport and we said goodbye. I took a cab and she left on her motorcycle. We promised to keep in touch by e-mail which we did.
A few months later, I was in HCMC again and contacted her. This time, she showed me around HCMC on her motorcycle. Quite a scary experience for someone like me, riding pillion on her motorcycle..Singapore's traffic is so organised compared to HCMC..
Again, this trip ended with nothing. I never had a chance to go HCMC again for work and so it remained as that, however 2 years back, she still send me some e-mail and said that she is now working in Korean company.
My questions are :-
1. Although I met her at a lounge, she does not seem to be WL (selling sex) type. Is it true that there are students who work at these kind of Japanese lounges ?
2. Would it have been possible for me to bonk her at the 1st time when she was in my room ? How to negotiate the price ?
3. I would think that a conservative VN gal would not go to another guy's room or could it be she's looking for foreigner bf ?
4. How can you detect whether a VN gal is willing to go all the way with you ?