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Originally Posted by saint82
I must say i finish 1/4 of the thread before posting here..
but really too long already, so never finish all.. i am not here to post a question because i also dun noe wat to ask..
recently i come to know a vietnam WL in one of the pub in geylang..
i don't say i love her lah, but i like her alot and she knows it.. we even went out on a date on her last night in singapore.. she is currently back in vietnam but will be back next month..
i am very confused now.. at first can see that her sweet nothings to me is just playing along with me.. but after she went back, we continue to keep in contact via sms.. she told honestly that at first she is just playing along but now she has slowly taken a liking for me and miss me very much..
I am a poor working class with just enough for myself every month.. of coz the usual coffee, movie courtship money i still can afford lah.. i told her that and she understands it.. i dun noe if i should i continue with her? coz even when she comes back, i couldnt provide her enough to stop her from working.. i am also confused if what she told me is true since after all i know her in a pub and their main aim here is to land a fat goat..
i dun noe wat i can do for her.. and what i want from her.. any way i never went to bed with her before but i do know that she slept a few time with her customer during the time that she is here.. she told me when i ask her about it..
anyway i am single in my mid 20s.. going thu a early career switch at the moment..
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Hey Bro, i very agree with Bro Singviet..
If you can't even fed yourself, dun try or even think to jump into the hole. We all have experience it before, that's why we know more. Most of them have Viet wife here, i wouldn't be surprise if some of them their wife is from Joo Chiat / Geylang WL before. I know some of my friends whose wife is 1 of them. But i can tell you his wife got total 3 bf, 2 in Singapore, 1 in Viet, not including her Husband yet. But i can tell you something, even if i earn $5k - $10k every month, maybe i still cannot win the gal yet, because got so many guys supporting her. But i can tell you is her husband also very poor, can't even fed for himself, and dun even have the money even to let his son have better milk but those cheap milk. I can say it is quite out of the normal that in Singapore to have such situation like them here. Even for those poor family also not so bad situation as them, the husband earns $1k plus every month, owns loan sharks money, even i heard before is no money to take bus to work, and even no money to eat, just make himself full by drinking water. I think this is ridiculous.
So i can tell you bro, better be able to fed yourself 1st before others come in. I personally tried it before, and luckily been through the worst part already.
If you married, i can definately say money problem will never ends, even you are a multi millionaire. It is a never ending hole, if you want to maintain the relationship. You have to keep throwing the money into the hole.
Till date, i've only seen a Sing/Viet Couple in Singapore which i know and the wife is from Geylang WL. They are working together very closely, and it is very normal family working happily together but of course the guy is still pumping money to the hole, of course not a lot but around $300 - $500 a month.
Bro, if you can afford around $300 at least a month to the family, not including your wife spending. And setting a side of at least $200 - $500 for the family as well for just in case. Then maybe you can consider to get married.
You are 20 plus, me also, but i married with 1 kid. I also think that i will be even more happier if I'm single now. But single got single problems, married already also got it's problem. But still single has lesser problems.
Luckily you are asking about Viet, if you are asking about PRCs, i think a lot of the bros would be telling you even more things. It would be even worse than hell man..