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Old 15-05-2008, 01:08 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by Torres_Mok View Post
I think there is generation gap between this old husband and young wife.

IMHO this young gal hv sacrifice herself by marrying a old man in order for her family to hv a better life in vietnam, and turn out to be not case. These type of cases can be heard everywhere in singapore.
The thing that is missing in their relationship is TRUST. Its either the husband is overly suspicios or the wife has not been giving the husband that she can be trusted. To be true, this is the main thing lacking in most Singapore - Vietnamese relationship. The reason is most vietnamese gals do a lot of things behind the back of Singapore. Not one or two, but there's a lot of Vietnamese ladies still in contact with their former bfs in vietnam even after they are married to Singaorean man and this is just one of the things they do behind their singaporean husband's back. Trust is not given, it has to be earned.