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Originally Posted by Christin
I always try to impress a female, over my time, but always fail
I try buy her gift, tell her joke, she only treat me as friend or rejected
Recently then I know, I should not buy thing for her until she become my gf
how to know if it is a good timing to ask to be my gf?
I do not know what is appropriate and what is not when I go dating with a girl
Please advise
Some times I gotten from another forum
anymore tips?
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hi bro,
what i am going to tell you is going to sound crazy but have been in your place many times.
Girls LOVE bad boys! you can google this up and its true.
So basically, from my " research" into this, this is how girls' minds work:
a) They are always looking for something exciting
b) they want to be proud that they have " made a change" in someones life
c) they like the unknown.
This applies mostly to " regular girls" ( ie u exclude those mentally scarred ones )
so meaning:
i) When you are a bad boy, everyday your mood is different, u can be nice to her one day, next day you are a total asshole to her and this will make her curious as to what's going to happen and it will excite her.
ii) Then she will deem u " bad boy" and try to change you. She will be by your side to try and " change you " to be a better person.
The irony is, once she actually changes you ( and u change yourself), then she will get bored ( they have actually made meme videos about this
iii) The " unknown" and " instability" thrills them.
Girls will NOT admit to these facts, but if you have seen nice girls ( the type u know u can settle down with ), with broke guys who just game/ no job/ gambles/ abuses them etc.. and the girls will say " you dont know the btter side of him"
If you treat a girl too nice, the above excitement is not there.
The above is valid without factoring " wealth" into the equation. If you are super rich/ hot/ nice and literally u can afford anything the girl wants, then its another story ( the wealth supercedes the excitement, but there will be a chance that she might consider cheating with her bad boy ex or something)
I believe the only girls whom will truly appreciate a good guy are
a) The first love kind ( from school days, only tasted 1 dick in her life and got married etc)..maybe i'm wrong, but there are some really true love cases out there
b) cases of guy/ girl been through thick and thin , uphill and down hill together
c) The girl was from the FL industry and knows the value of a GOOD man.. but she did FL due to circumstances ( met some of these girls).
girls will make good partners, but then it will come with another bunch of mental problems as well.
in summary, just work hard on yourself and dont treat a girl too well
hahah.
all the best!