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Originally Posted by Darge
Do you think you have a future with her? Going to marry her?
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Yes and No. At the moment I am enjoying the perks and trying to understand the risks and loses.
If someone is young in their 20s like me, earns decent every month, we can go trial and error in life. But if you are:
1. Single in your 20s to 40s, barely making ends meet.
2. Single in your 20s to 30s, earns decent but needs to take care of studying siblings and/or aging parents
3. Married and barely making ends meet
4. Divorced/Annulled but need to take care of children
5. Retired in your 50s above
THE ANSWER IS DON'T! Dont play the KC bs!
Just take care of more important things in your life. It is fun and you'll feel proud when you start dating her, taking her out or especially when you are already together. But in every relationship there's always a honeymoon stage then after that its all hell. If you're willing to go through hell, go for it. But if youre one of the above, just don't.
You only live once, yes but don't throw away your life for nothing. Find something that is more meaningful...
If you're in your 20s, study higher education and eanr more money!
If you're in your 30s, invest in things that you can keep like properties
If you're married, invest in your wife! Pamper her with gifts, take her to clinic and change how she looks so you wont go GL hahaha
If you're on your retirement age, don't use money aside from paying for the session and a few drinks outside, have fun but use it on more meaningful things!
Especially don't sell any property you have for the WL/FL. Don't. If they love you they won't let you do that, of course you won't find any.
Make more money so you won't regret or feel bad when you lose it otherwise don't fall in love.