Having breakfast and catching up on this thread, same old same old haha. Just thought of dropping a few liners to bros newer to this hobby, hopefully they will have a more fruitful time cheonging:
- Don't compare. Some bros strip SN to FN, some get to french/paint/bang, some get extra time at no cost. End of the day, this is cyberspace, everyone free to write as deem fit. Facts or fiction, who the hell can verify? And more importantly, no need to bother the legitimacy at all, if you feel your session is enjoyable even though you don't get ANY off menu items others got, it's still $$ well spent. Too many variables at play for extras to happen, if this ML you don't get lucky, maybe the next one you will. Don't go to any season with the FOMO mindset or feel shortchanged if what happened to other bros don't materialise for you. Guage the ML based on what service she list, the rest, if have just take it as a bonus.
- Cheong your own way. Some pay to unlock. some charm to unlock, some don't care about unlock. Don't bother or judge how people get the extra mileage, stick to your own style/principles else you will forever feel disgruntled. I have my own very modest threshold for top ups, I don't tip and I stick to 120 categories and won't even patronise returnees that removed services that they used to provide. Set your own boundaries and stick to it. Then whatever good FRs that others wrote you can ignore so long as the MLs are out of your parameters.
- Take charge to minimise disappointments. A recurring topic is ML don't serve full timing. To mitigate, take control of proceedings, if some ML want to finish you off after 5 - 10 min massage, tell them hold their horses, remind them still EARLY, only let her proceed after the 30-40min mark. But be considerate if you know you take long to cum la, then end up all parties rush like mad and unhappy. Personally I don't really care if ML give me full 60 min coz I usually leave at 50min or even earlier. As said, if the session is solid, will it be ruined if you lugi 10 to 15min? Conversely if the session sucks, what's the point to get the full 60min? Rarely does ML chase customer off at the 40min mark. if it becomes awkward or boring after you shoot, it means no chemistry in the first place then think twice about RTM lor. For those who literally use body language or tell you another bro waiting then just skip her in future. Just don't expect to not take ANY initiative yet be serviced full 60min all the time. There are such MLs around but are RARE.
I don't cheong much post covid but prior to pandemic I was a twice a week guy for a few years, the above basic principles have served me well. I never once felt imbalance when some ML I frequent alleged to provide more to others, this world is never fair and square la, find your peace, manage your expectations, cheong with your own principles and your $$ will usually feel well spent and you won't feel emotionally and physically short changed regardless of what you read here.
Always remember, don't wholeheartedly believe everything you read and most importantly, don't naively believe in what MLs tell you, be it sweetnothings or sad stories. Pay to get your urge satisfied then return to your REAL life once you leave their premises. There's more important things to focus on than investing too much time on vice
ok, that's more than a few lines, my bad. Do ignore if such thesis ain't your cup of tea.
Peace and happy cheonging guys!