[donut88]

My opinion is gals are not stupid.

She let u go overseas (whether it's work trip or personal trip) but she knows what u can potentially do there. And she chose to keep quiet so as not to stir any quarrels and to keep the relationship.

So u just plan whatever u want (like go with friends, relatives, colleagues, etc), to make the trip looks legit and decent.

If yr wife keeps quiet about it, feel blessed that u have such a good wife.