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Originally Posted by expatamerican
Why are you with a younger partner? Because you like her youth and beauty and energy right? Why do you think she is with you, an older partner. Because she values stability and financial resources. You both bring your assets to the table. If you withdraw yours, what are you really offering? That is the transactional way of looking at it, which by your post is your view.
Another way of looking at it is each partner brings what they have to offer and open heartedly share it with the one they love. In that case you dont keep track of spending especially on things you also enjoy doing. This is a much happier way to live.
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thanks bro. this made me a more clear headed. i guess its my first time dating someone with this age gap and i compared to the working age women i used to date. this really helped me. would up u if i could haha