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Originally Posted by Lorrymark
Especially for singles, we should invest more in ourselves rather than spending on the ML which really can’t get you anything because there are always more bros or uncles who are willing to spend much much more than you and suddenly you feel like a loser because that person treated your favourite ML to a $500 meal. Not saying the rich bros did anything wrong, it’s their money, they have the right to channel their money to wherever they want. Just that in the end we have our own life outside, spend wisely within your budget.
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I feel single or with partner is the same. As in if your urge or curiosity made you proceed to start this hobby, is just a matter of everyone has a different appetite until they feel they don't need a regular dose of it. Health, $$ and lifestyle in general all will affect the outcome of coz. But I feel most people will reach a point they realise actually they are continuing due to it becoming a routine rather than a real need for it. Singles maybe one possible added risk is more prone to KC.. but don't mean married or with partner won't be KC by ML. Meet the right one that clicked, takes a seasoned cheongster to know how to not fall in too deep. The fact that we look for paid xxx/companionship is already a sign that there's something lacking in our lives that needs to be filled. Just a matter of how often we need this void to be fed.