Actually wanted to keep one's silence, but seeing how i once was in similar circumstance, cant help but chip in, you should take a look at bro warbird thread:
https://sbfsg.org/showthread.php?...hlight=warbird
The darkest places in hell are reserved for those who maintain their neutrality in times of moral crisis...
I dont see why you need to seek validation from strangers if are so certain about this relationship....