[warbird]

Originally Posted by EtherC

There’s a Chinese saying :
泰山崩于前而色不变，麋鹿兴于左而目不瞬
In modern training guru wording “ Do not let the external weather affect your calm internal weather”
By doing so you will always be the calm deep water port the ships sail to.

Bro, you're right!

That requires awesome emotional strength and self-mastery! Such a man is very hard to find for even the most beautiful girl.

Xi Shi 西施 was very lucky to have found such a MAN. He was Fan Li 范蠡.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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From another thread:

Originally Posted by Banaber

this struck me hard. jealousy ate me up for a couple of girls i had. skimmed through this thread and took notes haaa. thank you sensei!

Bro, tks.

It has happened to me before.

Some scientists believe 'contempt' is the kiss of death for a relationship. Perhaps...

But jealousy is certainly not far behind.

Would a man who believes he is the prize be jealous? Of course not. If a lao po leaves him, it's her big loss. That is the mental frame of a real MAN.

Cheers!

Bro WB