Thread: Stuck in an abusive marriage
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Old 21-11-2020, 02:20 PM
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Re: Stuck in an abusive marriage
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Originally Posted by Greg141 View Post
It also sounds like you are experiencing depression with thoughts of suicide.

I think you need to have a serious talk with your wife that you won't put up with abuse anymore and if she wants to give the marriage another chance you need to go for couples therapy. You've tried to make amends for your mistake already, if she can't forgive you then it's probably time to separate. I'm not saying she needs to forgive you right away, but that needs to at least be the directing she's moving towards.

I think you need to start taking care of your mental health as well. You want to be a good father don't you? You can't if you kill yourself.

It is a very difficult situation you're in. All the best.
Good points. Perhaps TS should even quickly go get help for himself immediately.

Private psychotherapists are all over. If that’s too expensive for you, go polyclinic and tell the doctor how you feel to get a follow up for psychological specialist or psychiatrist.

Don’t let it go untreated.