[Stenzer]

Originally Posted by Kopiosteve

Again I will be blunt and direct bro.

Special occasions are the time when good MLs/FLs can capitalize on and earn maximum money from carrots.

If you really like her, why would you want to ruin that for her!? Why would you want to prevent her from taking advantage of this grand opportunity!? Unless you are the carrot who have the wealth to splurge on her financially and with gifts... I say, stay away during special occasions.

Give some excuse like you're out of town during this period so she doesn't think you're neglecting her.

PS, so don't be sad. You're sad only because you're not getting your way. That's called being selfish.

interesting perspective.