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1) Danger of ML lifestyle ....Cont

b) $$$ -Expensive, we all know. However, what we may not realise is it takes time, energy and keep you from doing well in your job/ business - I neglected my freelance job, business drop really bad, became more temperamental...went into red. Can cost you your job or business

c) Found out by people you dont want them to know - no need to elaborate

d) Got caught by police in raids - This is again real. ICA and police raid especially HDB premise regularly. I kanna raid by ICA once. They come in a team of about 8 people, they will seal off the lifts and staircases, cannot escape. They bang through the doors round up the customers and MLs. Was treated like criminal, have photograph taken, IC and particulars all taken down. At that point, all kind of enjoyment offered by ML is not worth it, you just regret and wish you had not started ML route, I was lucky raid was by ICA, they let us off after taking down our particulars. If the raid is by Police, we would have been brought to police station for suspected involvment in illegal sex activity - someone will need to go to the police station to bail you out. The ICA officer further tell us (patrons) that there will be a PERMANENT record with the police that you are involved in illegal sex activity. This means if you are a civil servant, your career is finished. They further tell us that while they will not prosecute us, they may call us to be witness when they prosecute the MLs, ie they want you to testify against the ML. what else can you do. The encounter really scaed the shit out of me. Trust me, you dont want to go through this.