[EvilRoot]

He's probably fishing for attention ba this guy.
So many holes in the story, and this thread is probably not the best place to post this kinda advice, if you want to be taken seriously.

The best advice which helped me not get KCed, is just get a separate phone which you only use to contact MLs when you want a session.
Limit your conversations to just arranging sessions.

Use an extra phone and double encrypt everything (phone is encrypted, sms and calling apps also encrypted). Do everything you should do to prevent getting caught by GF/Wife!