[shutterbugstar]

Bro Pussyman,

I seldom post lah... but i see your thread so i post abit of my previous experience to share lah.

I am now happily settled dowm in msia with an ex cat 150.

last time b4 i took that step, i also come here ask for ppl to share experience... as usual there are some nice folks who share and encourage.. and also some who just like to pour scorn and cold water and act all so self righteous...and like what u say...as if know everything like that lah...

but that is the world lah....have all sorts of ppl....

anyway after i settled down... found out that actually most important thing is the effort u put into making the relationship work... and i respect u for that.

wish u all the best.