[Sturmgrenadier]

Before I begin - I'd first like to say that I am genuinely confused and unsure of what to do.

I'd really like to hear some different opinions before I decide, so thank you bros/sis in advance.

Background

So we've been married for a little over 8 years and have 2 kids. My wife has largely retained her pre-birth figure and is still attractive.

Frankly our sex life was great before marriage and nose dived after the kids arrived. She didn't want to try anything different, didn't like foreplay and just wanted sex to be over in like 5 mins or less it seems.

In addition, due to her being on contraceptives at that point (at least thats what she said) - she didn't get wet easily and it often hurt for her after sex as well.

Honestly I often wondered if she didn't find me attractive anymore, my confidence took a hit and gradually we just stopped having sex for like months at a time.


The Present

So recently, lets just say that she has completely freaked me out a little. She actually initiates sex, tells me that she is horny and has even suggested that we fuck outdoors (which we have a few times).

Don't get me wrong man - I'm enjoying this BUT she really stunned me the other night while we were having sex and this is where I'd really like to hear some views from everyone about.

We'd just fucked and I'd came all over her ass, wiped her off and I was laying down catching my breath. Normally? That would be it and we'd wash up....but that night, she snuggled up to me and asked me what my fantasies were.

Giving her the politically right answer, I said "Sweety I don't need to fantasize when I have you".

So she asked me "Have you ever had a threesome" to which I answered "No" (thats a lie lol - I've had a few paid experiences of that nature before).

Then this was what really shocked me "She asked if I'd like to be in a threesome with her."

Thinking she was joking, I laughed it off but she didn't stop there.

She actually specified that she wouldn't want it to be a local girl, that I had to wear a condom while I fucked the other girl, that I couldn't french kiss the other girl and that I've have to finish off by fucking and cumming in my wife and not the other girl.

I was genuinely stunned.

She had clearly given this some serious thought and knew what her boundaries are.

I didn't know how to react and just laughed it off nervously and dashed off to wash up. My head was racing - is she joking? Is that some kind of test to see how I would react? Or was she really acting out one of HER own fantasies?

What do you think?