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Dear Plain,

Thank you for the suggestions but I don't think making blanket statements is mature thinking. In case you don't realise, we are trying to save our marriage rather than let it fall to pieces. It is different if we care-less and don't give a rat's ass about the family. The problem is we do.

We or at least I , am here to share and find solutions to our dilemma. Is frightening to see so many bros having the same problem. No wonder the divorce rate is one of the highest in our part of the world. To divorce is easy but that is not a solution; cause you'll hv others problems to worry about.

To all bros out there w/ constructive suggestions (even Plain) thank you.