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In my scenario there is not much to ask for help as it is a typical case case of an unattractive, low self esteemed and low salary guy being KCed by a KTV vb. She told me she is in debt of the boss and the boss bought her here in SG to work so that she can repay her debts. Times when i offered to help her but she decline stating that she knows that i have no excess money and don't want me to borrow or sell my stuff just to help her.
The thing is at times we would exchange many messages with affections but at times she would not respond at all. Many points of time it crossed my mind that she's just playing around with a customer's feelings to get him hooked which i really did get hooked, but i told myself to stop as i've always known that these sort of girls are good at what they do, making men feel good. What surprised me was one day she told me that she's afraid as when she goes back we can't see each other anymore and in vietnam culture i would have to take care of her family if she's to be my girlfriend and she didn't want to burden me any further.
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The usually will only started to ask something from you after a period of time , when you really feel for her . They ignore on purpose and say no internet this happen to me before , you can see her online on facebook the past few day . Most of they have a bf at viet . I understand how you feel whenever you feel to quit you have the thought of trying one last time , your one last time will also not be the last time . When they know you fall for them they no longer hide their intention they will start to ask this and that .
There is not possible to turn the table , the love is one sided and she have many carrot in her cage ( the younger one sure have alot ) .You need her she no need you . If only you was fucking rich i mean really really rich , we usually will just lying to ourselve that if you good to her she will one day appreciate it , you can still continue if you wish but all you see is lie and more lie until one day you grow tired of her or you feel you have fucked her enough
