Marriage NO SEX is nevermind! But must have LOVE!
LOVE enough for your wife to let you go out and LOOK FOR SEX!!!!
and you must have enough LOVE for wife to have SEX without FALLING in LOVE with the WL or Part-TIme Lover!
If you ask me, paying fer sex outside mariage is less messy. No need to lie, no need to make excuses to meet for tryst. Just make APPT, FUCK, pay and fuck off!!!