Lesson learned.
 

Prior to the pandemic, have been going around different areas in Singapore looking for good massages. but during these 2 years have cut short such activities and only been patronising one ML. I’m not one that goes for looks for figure, ultimately i pin it to good service (with added perks) and gfe. The parlour was near where I lived so it was a added bonus.

But I guess as you keep patronising the same ml, the service level eventually dropped regardless as time goes by.
Just went for a usual 1 hour massage this week due to stress at work etc … prior to the massage I do catch a glimpse of the time. Normally the session it will start off with some hj, bj and then to the proper body massage.. but after some back and shoulder massage I was surprised that my ML told me that times up… everything was concluded within 30 mins. She still commented that she provided extra perks which others do not have (yeah right!)

TLDR - to sum things up, never put all your eggs in one basket. Will need to start from scratch and go around exploring again. Ultimately it’s a transaction, just Hate it when ML give dumb excuses.

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Thanks for sharing.
These girls are just for the money.

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Share Share……

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Sad truth...sigh

I totally agree with you. Its a transaction and nothing more. Don't try to see it as any kind of relationship.

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Many will/can empathize with you here.
Can give a hint on the ML's name/shop wo we can avoid?

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Fully agree, bro.

Have a rotation list. Absence makes the heart fonder.

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where is this place...please share so we all know :)

I also experience the same ... so I rotate 2 to 3 places

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This is why I seldom go back to same ML for more then 2 times. Unless those clean one, their standard is consistent.

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Just try moved around.. I learned my also.. really treat as Robert..

Now I go look around also.. we are not rich like alot bros here that can give extra more to those ml..

The ml mindset have changed.. they are like Telco treat well for new comers those long term users are mistreated..

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Recently visited a spa in Jurong east, currently undergoing renovation. So before I went, I checked their website for price list, $55 for 60mins full body massage. Upon reaching, the receptionist told me this package is not available and intro me other expensive shitting packages. After some consideration, I reject her offer and walked away since I do not wish to be chop carrot. So she reluctantly give in and offer me $55 massage. Since I’m here, I took it.

To my displeasure, the whole session, the ML keep complaining why I stingy lar, never she took a $55 massage job, no customers the whole day lar and bla bla bla. Hello, my money, I decide how best I want to utilise it. Who are you to tell me how I need to spend my money.

Anyway, I still get myself satisfy, but definitely will not RTM. Such behaviours must not be encouraged, feeding them fat and turn ugly.

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Ultimately like I mentioned it’s a transaction. I should have just given $25 for 30 mins massage. So flared up just now

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Sometimes, after one or 2 good sessions, it's not practical to keep going back so soon. Think of it this way - you have enjoyed much or make the most of the time, and she also gave as much as you did. Gotta to stop and pull back from this one and move on first. She may have also done the same to other customers the same day, she also needs to regain her stamina. Also she wants to build a wide base too.

Oh, it's really unlikely that we are special to them, in most cases. Even though we think we are close to them.

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Been there, done that. Try rotating a few shops, and possibly even rotate ml from same shop. This way, you have options… and you never know, sometimes might have lesser dmg (from same shop) too. ;)

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Bro u should stated the name of the spa or ml.. so bros here can avoid.. when I kana all this I will state the ml out.. to let bros avoid..